Spirituality Groups
Whether you are a small spiritual group looking to expand your knowledge or a large festival looking for intriguing and unique content to add to your lineup, the following work is broken down into three different categories. The first categories are workshops, discussions, or presentations that range in length from 1-2.5 hours, while the second group is rituals and sacred experiences arranged for attendees. A handful of these, along with all of the intensives listed at the end, have limited attendance, so please confirm with Lee which of these are the best for your needs, wants, and desires.
In addition to the following course list, Lee is also available for custom-designed courses that are collaboratively designed with your needs, as well as keynote presentations on a wide variety of topics. Please do not hesitate to contact Lee if you have any questions about which classes (or modified courses) would best work for your group, venue, or organization.
Spirituality
Classes, Workshops and Presentations
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We’re living in a renaissance of divination decks, from handcrafted creations to mass-produced material, each offering its own doorway into insight and inspiration. With so many options, how do you choose the deck that truly speaks to you? In this workshop, we’ll explore that question together as we handle and discuss a wide range of examples. We’ll look at symbolism, art style, card size, production quality, and - most importantly - the emotional and energetic resonance that lets a deck feel like home for you. You’ll leave with practical techniques and fresh inspiration for working with your first, current, or future decks, and you’re encouraged to bring a favorite or two if you’d like to explore during class.
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When we talk about power exchange in BDSM, the actual exchange of power is often assumed rather than examined, yet it’s a profound force worth exploring. Whether you identify as kinky or not, consciously shaping the dynamics between people can open doors to life force, intimacy, and the energetic dance that lives between individuals or groups. In this class, we’ll look at both intentional and unconscious power exchange patterns, why someone might step into them for a night or for a lifetime, and how these tools can support your magical work, energetic feeding, or broader life path. We’ll also bring awareness to astral connections, accidental bonds, and the ways these dynamics can veer into harm if left unchecked. Power is power, and inequality is not inequity - so let’s walk into this conversation with curiosity, courage, and our eyes wide open.
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Across cultures and communities, body modification has long been a way to express our identities, our affiliations, our milestones, our politics, and our spiritual connections. From the haircuts we choose to blend in or stand out to the makeup we wear with intention, we all modify ourselves in order to move through the world. In this class, we’ll explore a wide spectrum of body modification practices - from henna and ritual jewelry to tattoos, genital reconstruction, hook suspension, stage wardrobe, body piercing, and beyond. We’ll also dive into the energies these practices carry, the social meanings they evoke, and the important conversations around cultural appropriation. Together, we’ll look at why every alteration to our flesh can be sacred or profane depending on context, intention, and the stories we breathe into our transformations.
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Rope can ground us into the earth, or have us breathe consciously into the air. Restraint can help us swim through the waves of our heart, or kindle passion from the fire within. In this class, we will be playing with the concepts of earth (strength and grounding), air (breath and communication), water (emotions and flow), and fire (passion and speed) to help build tools for our rope play and beyond. Using exercises involving rope, we will explore how we connect to bondage, and how we connect to each other, through the notion of Intention + Attention = Magic.
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For many people, we have a belief that to read tarot cards, you have to memorize the LWB (Little White Book) that came with your deck. Maybe you've memorized rote, mapped out numerological meanings, or decided tarot is a bad fit for you because you don't need a white bearded Emperor on a throne mirroring the oppressions you see around you. Others just say throw the LWB out, ignore all the historical interpretations, and read it all from your gut. In this class we will look at the pros and cons of intuitive vs. classical reading approaches, as well as examine Benebell Wen's critical theory techniques for interpreting tarot and oracle cards, while looking at our tools for building the muscle that is your intuitive capacity. Let's find the path that will help you thrive in your practice.
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When we think of grief, many of us picture death and those who mourn the departed, yet loss weaves itself through so many other parts of our lives. Relationships that shift or end, identities and expressions that evolve, careers and capabilities that fall away - all of these deserve to be honored. In this gathering, we will explore how to name our losses, how to ritualize remembrance, and how to tend the threads of our past without becoming tangled in them. Together we’ll look at the wisdom these experiences offer and the ways we can carry those lessons forward with intention. Come share tools, practices, and presence as we navigate the sacred terrain of mourning and renewal.
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Ever find yourself called to cast a spell, but you left your athame at home? Did your sacred toolkit get lost by the airlines? Bring what you usually carry around with you in your day to day life, and we'll look at how to think creatively about what we have with us (bandannas make great alter cloths) or what we can find easily anywhere we go (salt packets from fast food restaurants are perfect for drawing circles). This class is perfect for the magically inclined living in suburbia, street punks, minimalists, and those hoping to think outside the restrictions of hauling around 40lb. magical toolbags.
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For some, power exchange and authority transfer spark an erotic rush, while for others, these dynamics are part of something far more profound. They can offer a pathway into the quiet satisfaction of purpose, the heartbeat of spiritual calling, and the deep soul-level connection we build with those we choose to journey beside. In this class, we will explore how devotion, surrender, guidance, and authority can move beyond play into meaning, magic, and personal truth, while also looking at how energy flows within a dynamic to support all parties involved. Together, we’ll look at how these practices may serve as spiritual expression, sacred alignment, intimate passion, or even a channel to the divine. Come discover what inspires you, sustains you, and calls you forward on your own power exchange path.
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Many of us slip into altered states during sensual, sexual, kink, BDSM, and fetish experiences without ever naming the terrain we’re crossing. In this journey through the eight major routes of Sacred Kink, we’ll look at how ritual can shape initiatory moments like earning leathers, how rhythm can guide cathartic impact play, how flesh can open pathways in sensual bondage, and how each route holds its own form of magic. You’ll be invited to notice where your body, spirit, and desire meet, and how those intersections can become portals rather than accidents. We’ll explore how these practices echo traditions thousands of years old while offering tools to deepen your own energetic awareness today. Whether you’re seeking intention, connection, or a more conscious approach to your play, this class offers a map to the sacred threads already woven through your erotic life.
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How do we, as sacred erotic explorers, keep ourselves grounded, protected, and empowered as we move through experiences that engage our bodies, our Will, and our desire? Together we’ll explore how toys, safer-sex supplies, fetish tools, and other intimate gear can become allies in energetic shielding, extensions of our astral selves, and sources of personal power. We’ll look at the dance of body fluids and prana, how to move energy beyond physical barriers, and how to consciously choose what parts of our spirit mingle - or don’t - with those we play with. We’ll also discuss dedicating our erotic tools and navigating the ethics of energetic exchange. Prior experience with sex magic or energy work can deepen the journey, but all curious seekers are welcome.
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Many magical and pagan traditions were not built to be LGBTQ+ focussed, yet magic itself has always had a queer nature. In this class, we will explore queer deities across history and the ancestors - chosen, communal, spiritual, and mythic - who stand with us beyond bloodlines. Together, we’ll honor the power that rises from living outside, between, or across layers of identity, orientation, and experience. We’ll look at both queered magic and the act of queering existing practices, connecting with specifically queer practices, and shaping rituals that reflect and celebrate those who walk these paths. This class is open to anyone drawn to learn more about these topics, share their own personal experiences, be around peers, or become an ally through looking at the expansive nature of magic beyond boundaries.
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Has someone ever hinted that your Saturday adventures - or your entire life - sound too wild to be real? Have you been told you’re “too much” simply for existing as you are, or that your world must be dazzling or dreadful because it doesn’t fit their script? In this guided conversation we’ll explore how to navigate the projections others place on us, how their imagined narratives affect our feelings, and what our lived truth actually looks like. Whether you’re an edge player, in a 24/7 power-dynamic relationship, walk an immersive spiritual path, live with complex medical realities, or work a job others label as “unimaginable,” you’re welcome here. Together, we’ll weave a circle of peership and camaraderie among folks whose everyday lives fall beautifully outside the expected map.
Rituals
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Dionysus Rising is an invitation into ecstasy, devotion, and the holy unraveling of the self, a space where we gather with a glass in hand, bodies warm near the fire’s breath, and hearts open to what longs to be awakened. Through guided ritual, sensation, sound, and movement, we call to Dionysus - god of the grape, of madness and liberation, of holy pleasure and feral truth - and invite his current to move through flesh, breath, and bone. Satyrs and maenads, lovers and wild-hearted wanderers, the curious and the undone are all welcomed, whether in hooves, boots, silk, or skin, to sway, tremble, sing, and answer the drums as they speak through the night. This is a container for consensual celebration, embodied prayer, and ecstatic release, where longing and lust are honored as sacred messengers rather than something to be hidden away. Come to sip, to spin, to sweat, to howl, and remember the ancient pulse that has always lived within you.
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For many people, there is no emotional or energetic connection to their blood ancestors due to being adopted, kicked out of their home, made unwelcome, or other circumstances. All of us on the other hand have Ancestors of Love - the people who we learned our sexuality, romance, emotional bonding, and erotic information from, were inspired by, or who cleared the way for your love style to be possible. Who are your Ancestors of Love? Who are your trans-cestors, your kink-cestors, your polyam-cestors, your queer-cestors, and your love-cestors? We will explore our ancestors, then look at how we can honor them, remember them, cherish them, heal them, acknowledge the toxic things we learned from them, and call upon them in our times of need.
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We each form different relationships in our lives with friends, family, lovers, and others. But what about our relationship with ourselves? In this ritual and journey into love, the ultimate question will be asked, “Do you take yourself to be your own partner or spouse?” To love and to cherish, to appreciate and support, for the rest of your days? Come dressed in wholesome white or slutty scarlet, a three piece suit or your birthday suit, as this group self-marriage ritual explores our passions in our personal journeys. Come make a commitment to your SELF that reflects your authentic passions and truths for who you truly are and how you want to be there for yourself in the future.
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With ropes in hand or dancing across your flesh, close your eyes. Our partner’s breath flows out, and we breathe it in. They struggle, we hold the line. In this full-day intensive, let us experiment with ways to build our mindfulness and passion alike within our rope bondage. With touch and sensuality, rhythm and objectification, let’s feel our way into different ties from both sides of the line. Dominance and submission are one form of power exchange we will tap into in our floor work, as well as giving and receiving, topping and bottoming, and artist to canvas. Beyond the binaries we will find the ways that we each let our juice flow, all while learning a variety of ties and practicing those we already know. This intimate experience is limited to 10 couples/triads. Bring your toy bag, your spirit, your curiosity and your power, expanding your own ropes entwined.
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So many are drawn to the sacred feminine or sacred masculine, but what of those of us who hold the energy of both in our body, neither, or something else entirely? Just as countless deities have danced beyond the binary, we, too, can honor the lands, ancestors, elements, and inner selves that thrive outside traditional boundaries. Through breath, words, dance, and movement, we will process feelings, thoughts, joys, and actions that arise in this complex experience surrounding energy, divinity, gender, and sex. Attendees are invited to don the garb that best expresses their connection to these energies or manifests their authentic experience for this shared ritual experience. Bring your delight, your curiosity, your passion, and perhaps some of your discomfort as well - because the spaces “beyond and between” are where profound magic often lives.
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We live in a world that often whispers that we’re incomplete unless someone else fills in our missing pieces, making it easy to forget the fierce, radiant wholeness we already carry. This guided visualization and ritual experience invites you to remember that you are already whole unto yourself, even as you move through the communities and relationships that shape your life. Together, we’ll journey into the ways your spirit shines in connection, how your presence weaves meaning with others, and how your sacred individuality remains steady and luminous at the center of it all. This ritual isn’t about withdrawing from others, but about reclaiming your vitality so you can meet your relationships with clarity, choice, and authenticity. You deserve excellence - and that brilliance is already alive within your own Sacred Self.
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When many people hear the word ordeal, they picture blazing coals or flesh hooks - but for some of us, the harder journey is letting our hearts be seen. In this ritual, all are welcome, whether you choose to step into the center or witness from the circle. One by one, ritualists will take to the center and choose which words of love, acceptance, adoration, and awesomeness that they would like bestowed upon them. This is an invitation to face the quiet fire of self-doubt and let it transform into self-recognition. You are a remarkable being, and this ritual offers a path to step forward holding your own worth and love with clarity and courage.
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In this guided visualization and ritual meditation, let’s walk the crossroads between self and community - seeing your strength reflected in others, feeling your connections resonate through your body, and witnessing the bright ember of your own sacred individuality. This practice is not about stepping away from the world or elevating solitude, but about remembering the vitality you carry as you move within the circles and systems you choose. Here, you are reminded that excellence is not a destination but a truth you already embody. Come home to that knowing. Come home to your Sacred Self.
Intensives
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If the Goddess says that all acts of love and pleasure are Her rituals, then our bodies become living altars - sites of memory, magick, and possibility. In this two-day intensive, we’ll journey into the sensual and the sacred, discovering how our senses, breath, and mindful presence can unlock deep erotic power. Together we will also name the collective wounds we carry from the over-culture, honoring that healing and awakening often walk hand in hand.
Through shared stories, gentle movement, playful experiments, journaling, and creative expression, we will explore where our bodies have been and what they long for next. From this grounded place, we’ll learn to evoke emotion, cultivate embodied ritual, and engage in self-touch as an act of remembrance and reclamation - always honoring that touch takes many forms. Come with an open heart and a curious spirit, ready to listen for the whispers of sex magick and step into embodied wisdom.
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The realm of Sacred Kink is wide, wild, and profoundly human - a place where breath meets intention, where skin becomes a doorway, and where our spiritual longings braid with our erotic truths. In this three-day immersive intensive we will explore the Eightfold Paths of Sacred Kink through experiential practices, guided ritual, and heartfelt inquiry. Together we will awaken the body, stir the spirit, laugh out loud, release rhythm, and remember the ancient knowing carried within our flesh. This intimate weekend invites both seasoned travelers and curious newcomers to step into altered states of consciousness with care, courage, and community, discovering how these practices can deepen pleasure, authenticity, and connection.
In this intensive, participants will:
Explore the Eightfold Paths of Sacred Kink through hands-on techniques, energetic engagement, and embodied ritual.
Cultivate personal tools for entering, navigating, and integrating altered states, including trance, ordeal, creativity, and power exchange.
Learn to communicate desires clearly, receive touch mindfully, and articulate boundaries as sacred acts of truth-telling.
Discuss taboo topics, from conscious ordeals to sacred plants, through a lens of grounded spirituality, ethics, and practical application.
Deepen self-knowledge by experimenting with roles, identities, and ritual frameworks that expand consciousness and challenge limiting narratives.
This gathering is intentionally limited in size so we can create a brave, supported space for honest exploration, shared ritual, and transformative learning. All attendees are interviewed in advance to ensure the container serves their growth, and throughout the weekend you’ll be encouraged to opt in, step back, rest, and re-engage at your own pace. Whether you are attending solo, in pairs, triads, or small groups, not all rituals or hands-on explorations will be with the same people as we dance between these various routes to altered states.
Additionally, morning coffee/snacks, lunches, and dinners are provided during the weekend with individual needs and allergies in mind to allow for the group to spend more immersive time together. Sometimes the deepest learning and bonding we can have is in the liminal spaces between formal instruction and exercises. If you feel the call to journey deeper into your erotic authenticity, spiritual hunger, and embodied power, this intensive offers a rare chance to step fully into that path.
Sacred Kink. Serious Play.