Resources & Recommendations
I have an abundance mentality: When people are genuinely happy at the successes of others, the pie gets larger.
- Stephen Covey
I believe in supporting artists, educators, authors, companies, and brands that are doing good work in the world and making magic happen. These are but some of them.
- Lee Harrington
Explore. Discover. Support. Enjoy.
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Educators & Coaches
Beast & echo
Frenchie Davis
Guan-Xuan Du
Leo Gauge
Jaki Griot
Goddess Indigo
Mama Vi Johnson
Raven Kaldera
Kero
Nae
Piper Rose - Shadow Play Coaching
Sarah Sloane
Marla Renee Stewart
Winterson Tashlin
Sir Wombat
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Rope & Adult Vendors
Agreeable Agony (my source for MFP rope)
Alfred Press (excellent
Bind Me (Netherlands - my source for jute rope)
Kinbaku Studios (my source for POSH rope)
Lorals (latex hotpants for great oral sex)
Restrained Grace (custom colorful kink gear and home of the Self-Owned Subs Club)
Twisted Monk (my source for hemp rope)
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Kink & Sexuality Events & Organizations
Academy of Fetish Arts (Cleveland, Ohio)
AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Councilors, aWd Therapists) (Worldwide and Online)
Camp Crucible (Maryland and New Jersey)
Dark Odyssey (San Jose, California and Maryland)
Fornocopia (Maryland)
Karada House (Berlin, Germany and Online)
Th Kink Queer Collective (Gotenberg, Sweden)
KinkFest (Portland, Oregon)
Leather Leadership Conference (Atlanta, Georgia)
Leather Reign (Everett, Washington)
LOCK (Albany, New York)
MasT KC (Kansas City, Missouri)
Master/Slave Conference (Maryland and Online)
Midnight Sun Hedonism (Fairbanks, Alaska)
PEPRMNT (Twin Cities, Minnesota)
Pragmatically Kinking (Online)
Queer Rope (Online)
Sex Down South (Georgia, Arizona, Florida, and Online)
Sexual Health Alliance (Worldwide and Online)
TASHRA
Thrive: BDSM and Mental Health Conference (Online)
TRC (Birmingham, Alabama)
Twisted Leprechaun (Philadelphia. Pennsylvania)
Twisted Tryst (Ohio)
Unabashed Queer Kink Conference (Denver, Colorado)
Wicked Grounds (San Francisco, California and Online)
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Kink & Rope Books
Shibari You Can Use
More Shibari You Can Use
Essence of Shibari
Knotty Boys 1
Knotty Boys 2
Rope Bondage and Power
Playing Well With Others
Tying and Flying: Bondg for Self-Suspesion, by Shay Tiziano
Blck Men in Leaher, by Cain Beringer
Fantasy Made Flesh, by Deborah Addington
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up, by Evie Vane
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink, by Midori
The Forked Tongue, by Flagg
The Ultimate Guide to Kink, ed. Tristan Taormino
The Toybag Guide to Age Play
The Beauty of Kinbaku
Male Bondage: Art Deseres a Witness, by Van Darkholme
Urban Aboriginals by Geoff Mains
Leather Folk, ed. Mark Thompson
Trust: The Hand Book, yBert Herrman
A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting, by Deborah Addington
The New Topping Book
The New Bottoming Book
Radical Ecstacy
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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Power Exchange Books
Raven Kaldera Books
Kneeling In Spirit
Hell on Wheels
Broken Toys
Mastering Mind
Unequal by Design
Building the Team
Paradigms of Power
Real Service, by Joshua Tenpenny
Living M/s, by Dan and Dawn Williams
Ask the Man Who Owns Him, ed. David Stein
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Gender Books & Resources
Traversing Gender
Trans Life Line
My Gender Workbook
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Denver Shops & Resources
Colorado Alternative Lifestyles (CAL)
Denver TNG (age 18-25) at The Sanctuary
The Center on Colfax (LGBTQ+ events, resources, library, and support groups)
Quince Coffee
RitualCravt
RoosterCat Coffee
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Spirituality & Religious Events & Organizations
Parliament of the World’s Religions
Asphodel Church & Cauldron Farm
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Sex Magic and Sacred Sex
Sared Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
Spirit of Desire
Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path, ed. Raven Kaldera
Carnal Alchemy by then Flowers
Bitch Goddess: The Spiritual Path of the Dominant Woman, ed. Patrick Califia-Rice
Beneath the Skins: The New Spirit and Politics of the Kink Communiy
Kink Magic: Sex Magic Beyond Vanilla, by Taylor Elwood and Lupa
Sacred Power, Holy Surrender
Urban Trantra
The Spirit of Intimacy, by Sobonfu Somé
The Red Goddess
Ecstatic Ritual by Brandy Willliams
Magia Sexualis, by Hugh B. Urban
The Ethical Psychic Vampire
The Psychic Vampire Codex
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Non-Monogamy Books
The Ethical Slut
Love Is Not Color Blind
Th African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy
The Anxious Person’s… Clementine Morgan
Poly Secure
Opening Up
Designer Relationships
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Other Recommended Books
Public Sex by Patrick Caifia-Rice
Bonk, by Mary Roach
Intellectal Foreplay
Lust in Translation
Sared, Not Secret
